I am working on it, honestly
“If someone is doing something you do not approve of and it has no effect on your life, then what do you care? Leave her alone”.
This is what I should learn, to accept people for who they are, to not be judgemental. I should learn to mind my own business and let people be, do, be with, think whatever they want.
I think the problem is that I don’t want to see people I care about get hurt, or make mistakes. But, on the other hand, it is their life. They have the right to make whatever mistakes they want. Especially if it makes them happy (well, except doing drugs :) )
And I should learn to pay less attention to little things that makes me judge. Like stupid Facebook statuses, people’s grammar mistakes (I am an extreme grammar nazy). Which is ironic, because I write in a foreign language and probably make a ton of them, but I don’t want to be judged because of them.
But I’m getting better at it. Besides, it only makes ME feel bad, and ruins MY day, which is stupid, isn’t it?
So I better go make myself a cup of tea and enjoy my day. I hope you enjoy your day, too! ;)